Fun AND Active Sex Is All You Need

As we age, sex may not happen as often and it may take a little longer. But taking longer doesn’t make it any less fun; in fact, it can make it even more fun. While your sex drives may decrease with age,they should not decrease substantially.

Most people will probably experience a number of changes in physical and emotional that have an impact on our level of imtimacy, sexual activity and pleasure. Just because things changes doesn’t mea I have to forget about what has been a source of pleasure to me and an important part of my life and relationship. Be creative and try new things.

Communication bring us closer by talking and touching..Opening lines normally for me would be..Can we have sex? He would normally replied ..NO. But, he normally bang me 4 times a week if he’s totally free and off from basketball activities. Try it and see what happens, discuss the changes you are going through and how can you accommodate each other.

Weirdly, we do not communicate on trying out on new positions, he just did it. So its like SURPRISES on every sex sessions. Think differently about sex. Kinky ya!

Sex is more than just penetration. All kinds of touch are stimulating and pleasurable. Take the time to explore each other’s bodies and find out what turns you on. Touch is a great alternative or addition to intercourse. It can simply mean holding each other. It can also mean sensual massage, masturbation or oral sex.

And there is nothing wrong with sex for sex’s sake. If you are in a long-term or monogamous relationship, keeping sexually active doesn’t always have to mean that you are both in the mood. Sometimes it can just mean taking a bit of time to give your partner pleasure because that is what you want to do for them. Masturbation is also a way to keep sexually active. That is why he is totally fine with me having my fun toys.

Sometimes it’s just a matter of making a few small changes in your routine. Change the time of day when you have sex to the time when you have the most energy.Try the morning instead of at the end of a long day.Try a new position. Even changing your usual side of the bed adds a bit of variety.

If you always do it in the bedroom, try another room in the house if your family situation allows you a bit more privacy at certain times. Having sex in other places give you another heart pounding session.If you always do it on the weekends, try a few mid-week breaks. Give yourself the time you need to get aroused and enjoy the journey. Hell Yeah…Bang me harder!

If you didn’t have lots of sex early in your relationship or through your middle years of relationship, it is likely that you are not going to start to have lots of sex as an older adult or couple. Partners who enjoyed frequent sex when they were younger are more likely to continue that pattern as they age. Something to think about as you enter middle age!

Regular exercise can increase sexual frequency and improve performance. Taking care of your body and your mind will help keep you primed for sex, at any age!