sexSorry

Men are very often don’t know what they want, just because he has fun with you doesn’t mean he want you as a girlfriend. This is the main problem we Asian suffer. The wrong thinking. You could probably tell from their actions. But it is true. Most men can tell a story about how they weren’t looking for anything serious and then fell in love. While  every men looking for love but discovered they had a lot of fun being single.

Remembered I talk about the Cum Lover. More or less the similarity in here. They might not be hooking around but you both slept, he said he love you, you both had an amazing date. One of the most important and annoying concept that women need to gete about  men is that most thing have no meaning, beyond what is being covey in that moment. Just because he wants a serious relationship doesn’t mean he wants one with YOU. Just because he has fun with you doesn’t mean he wants you as his girlfriend. Just because he thinks you’re sexy doesn’t mean he wants to commit to only you. Each time you think this is the case, you’re setting yourself up for heartbreak.

OK lets just said I am serious about falling in love. I got attracted by multiples of guys. Which happen most of the time in me, none of whom feel like they will be my future husband. Which leave me a number of questions that everyone would like to consider:

Am I supposed to NEVER hook up with them? No kissing, no foreplay, no sex with anyone that I don’t think I want to marry? Do you think the standard should be: heavy petting is only in exclusive relationships, or not at all?

Sleeping around isn’t any crime….is a try out on their dick size.

If I DO hook up, but have no intention of committing to an individual man, does that make me a bad girl?

No No….you can either be friends or friends with benefit.

How should I notify a guy that I am not serious about her before we start a physical relationship? What’s better? A written warning? How’s that gonna go over?

Well girls, if you are no serious….just casual texting. Those idiotic creature will understand you are just friend and not into anything serious.

These are real considerations that go through the heads of real guys who want real relationships. But just because a man aspires to love doesn’t mean he’s above the lust and passion that comes from short-term flings.

Men look for sex and find love. Women look for love and find sex.

That’s right. We can’t. We’re damned if we do and damned if we don’t.You may feel that: “I just want a guy to be honest with me. Believe me, I sometimes want to have sex, too, but I just want to know where I stand. I don’t want to get hurt. He should be man enough to tell me the truth.”

Men look for sex and find love women look for love and find sexSorry. They have got a different truth.The truth is that they are attracted to you in this moment.The truth is that they are not sure if we want a relationship with you.The truth is that if they tell you that they don’t know what’s going to happen in the morning, nothing will ever happen.

So lets say nothing. And hope that you don’t get too attached.