Losing Your Virginity Just As You Imagined It To Be?

There are few unbelievable things that young woman’s life been through. Before our first period, it is tough on how it feel having sanitary pad on your undies for days. Before our first kiss, we hardly can imagine how close we can feel a person right in front of us or someone else pressing our face or even moving tongue in our mouth. Losing virginity isn’t the weird part.

It doesn’t matter what is your background, age or experience. Having sex for the first time is a big deal for some people. You can prepare as much as possible but you still can’t exactly feel what it like until the deed is done.

Not all of us lose our virginities at age 18. If you’re still a virgin later in life, it can feel like you’re the last person on earth who hasn’t had sex, but you aren’t alone. Whether you’re waiting for your wedding or just haven’t found the right person, here’s what you should know about losing your virginity as an adult.

First things first: what does virginity mean to you? Most people think that Dick in Pussy intercourse is what defines losing one’s virginity, but that really shouldn’t be the default. Intercourse might not be a part of your desired repertoire, or there may be other acts that have more meaning to you. It’s really up to each of us to decide what act constitutes losing our virginity. Aside from the logistics, there’s also the emotional weight that you assign to your virginity. Would you like to lose your virginity with someone you care about? Are you saving it for marriage?

One of the biggest questions that come up for later-in-life virgins is whether or not to tell a potential first partner about your virginity status. My advice tends to be yes: your virginity isn’t anything to be ashamed of, so you don’t need to hide it. Virginity means different things to different people, so you should allow your partner to decide whether or not they feel comfortable being the one to take yours.

You’ll also need to figure out how you’re going to protect yourself from sexually transmitted infections and pregnancy. Do this before you are naked and horny.

You’re probably going to be a big bundle of nerves before losing your virginity. That’s okay! No need to force yourself to act calm if it feels like there’s a colony of butterflies setting up shop in your stomach. Let yourself feel whatever you need to feel before, during, and afterwards.

Let me be real with you: your first time is probably going to be short ,a little awkward, and not particularly fantastic. It will feel like there are an awful lot of limbs involved and no good place to put any of them. It takes time and practice to learn how to have great sex. You’ll get there eventually, but not your first time and that’s okay! Try focusing on the acts you’ve already done and feel comfortable with to bolster your confidence.

Your first time may also be somewhat painful and bloody. Most people think that the hymen is responsible for these unfortunate side effects, but that’s not necessarily the case. The oft-misunderstood hymen doesn’t block off her vaginal canal, and doesn’t “pop” during sex. It’s a permeable membrane that likely already has a number of perforations in it. If one does experience pain, it’s probably because the sensitive tissues of her vaginal canal aren’t used to being penetrated in this way. Bleeding can come from the hymen, but it’s just as likely to originate from the tissues of her vagina, which again, aren’t used to this kind of intrusion.

Be prepared for clean-up. As mentioned above, there may be some blood involved. There may also be lots of bodily fluids that are rapidly sliding their way out of your orifices. Have a box of wet tissue near you.

Have fun, and welcome to the wonderful world of being a sexually active adult!