Cleanliness is a thing that we were taught since young. But did
your mom ever tell you about sex hygiene? I grow up having my mom who she is
50% open about sex topic. She often told me about sex hygiene. How bout you?
There are few rules you need to abide by prevent any infection or embarrassments
when you about to have sex.
The vagina is actually a self-cleansing organ, and
gynecologists warn against using feminine hygiene products designed to
“freshen” you down there before sex. Wipes are bad for you because they can
mess with your body’s natural pH and actually lead to infections–which will
make you have a legit problem down there that you didn’t before.
It’s totally normal to want to freshen up before sex, but
you shouldn’t feel pressured into it by anything or anyone, especially not by
strangers trying to sell you something. The best way to make sure you’re in
tip-top shape before sex is just to shower with regular old soap and water. If
you don’t have wipes or perfumes or weird chemicals to clean up down there, it
doesn’t mean you’re not sexy or that you’re not prepared–it means that you’re
actually pretty smart and safe
We have enough sexual shame in our culture to last for
generations, and if you induce more your partner will be less likely to feel
sexy. And feeling sexy is important to our desire to have sex. So broach the
subject gently. You might want to start non-verbally by bathing him or her.
Just hop in the shower before making love, get some vibrating sponges or water
proof toys and have fun in the suds. Just make sure not to get any soap inside
the vagina or inside either of your anuses.
For the issue of
taste or smell it is important to note that if you aren’t comfortable with your
partner’ flavor or scent, that you might want to try giving it a little time
before turning away. The taste of the genitals may be strong at first, but as
you continue you will often find that it diminishes as things heat up and get
going. If it doesnt then you may want to try some dietary changes. Another
reason for a bad taste or smell may be a bacterial infection, so if things
persist you may want to visit your doctor to see if there is something else
going on.
I love kissing but bad Breath? Kissing for most women is the
deciding factor when it comes to whether or not they are going to sleep with
you. If your breath is bad you may not get very far. Try brushing your teeth or
chewing on gum when it comes to putting your mouth on your partner.
Please wash your hands before touching your partner‚or other
regions, this can stop germs and infection. Also, check your hands for rough
calluses or jagged nails and file or trim them. If you are attached to the
length of your finger nails you may want to use toys for anal or vaginal
penetration, but really, isnt the pleasure worth cutting your nails short?
A quick wash to the
genital area can do wonders. Just using water is fine. And while you are
splashing it on check to be sure that there arent any wads of toilet paper or
other pleasantries lingering about. You can use soap, just dont get any inside
of you as if may affect your natural PH.
Honestly, I am still a virgin when it comes to Anal Area.Okay,
this is a big one, please, please, please clean this area if you are expecting
to receive any anal play. First of all, note if you have hair back there. Hair
collects stuff, toilet paper and other stuff that might not be so pleasant for
your partner, so make sure to check your hair and even trim it if necessary.
Wash the external area with soap and water. If you want penetration you may
want to do a quick enema. You can check with your own finger to be sure that
you are clean.
Once you have done your grooming, you may want to take time
to deliciously groom your partner. And if they don’t go for it, you may want to
have a talk with them about how sexy they are and how much you enjoy bathing
them. Be positive and entice your partner with creative words. If all else
fails, try some flavoured lubes or condoms.
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