Why Blowjobs?

Just as men sometimes have difficulty understanding why women are such emotional creatures, and don’t know how to deal with our land of emotion, a lot of women have trouble understanding the reason behind men wants blow-jobs, and put a man’s interest in sex down to the fact that they are just an idiot, or that that’s all they care about, that that is all they want, and think they are self-serving creatures who want it just because it feels good.

It is also widely known that the male and female sex drive is hard to reconcile,agree with me? Women sometimes have a lot of trouble opening up to their men, and put it down to the fact that they  are just don’t feel like it’. Fair enough, women have crazy hormonal cycles, and find it hard to make time to focus on sex sometimes. We all know sex is extremely important to most men, but we don’t really know truly why this is the case, am I right?

If we can all have a bit more understanding and appreciation for the male sex, this will make it a much eaasier for all of us, and we will be able to experience more freedom in our intimate relationships, once we truly understand the differences between the sexes, respect and understand what fills them up rather than fear and reject a man’s need for sex.

According to most men, Why Blow Job?  It’s not JUST because it feels good. Although, this is definitely a part of why men love oral sex so much. At first instance, most women think that men love it because they don’t have to do anything themselves, and can just sit back wait for the woman to do all the work. Seriously, like I used to post on the first chapter, it is tiring to give blowjob. Without being crash, as this is not my intention, if it was because they don’t have to do anything themselves. Try asking a man to suck a banana for 10 minutes. God dammit!

Women often observe love in different ways than what men do ,obviously right?. A woman may think love in a man taking the time to listen to her, buy her gifts, take her out, commit to her, protect her, talk to her, put her first, hug her, caress her, call her, write her letters, making the first move, being the rock and the leader in the relationship, complimenting her, etc. HELL NO!

Whilst many of these things are important to men as they think, men also think great love in being given oral sex and having sex in general. They are not so much talkers like women are, and think that a woman loves him if she does have sex with him regularly. I am referring to those who are in relationship not one night stand. OK!

We have already established that men don’t talk as much as women do in order to connect with other human beings. But why do men perceive so much connection in sex? The reason is because men don’t generally communicate to other men the way women communicate with other women.It’s hard for a man to go to his guy friends to talk, to connect and to feel loved.Ewww………

This is one of the primary ways in which men can feel connected to, and loved by their woman. The reality is that the masculine energy is very much driven by sex. This doesn’t have to mean that men always just want to have sex, no, no! Sexual energy can be used in many other ways to benefit an intimate relationship.

It is much easier to have a healthy relationship when you understand this. As uncomfortable and difficult as it can be