Thursday 12 November 2015

The Perception of Sex in Our Society Today

Sex is supposed to be fun right?, not taboo or something to be ashamed of doing. Sex is a natural part of human existence. You shouldn’t feel like you’re doing something wrong or bad because you enjoy sex.
That’s what being sex positive is all about -embracing your sexuality…Guess I am in the wrong coordinate to talk about SEX.

Personally, I think everyone should be more open about sex. We should all be talking about it openly and honestly. Hell, if you can’t talk about sex with the person you intend to be naked with, then maybe you should rethink getting naked. I’m all for the one-night stands and casual sex, but even people who plan to fuck and forget , at the very least, get the STD and birth control talk out of the way first.

I love rough, raunchy sex. I love having my hair pulled and my ass smacked. At least my sex life is satisfying! More people should close their mouths, open their minds and their legs, and see sex for what it is positive intimate experiences between two agreeing adults who just want to get satisfy.

In this day and age, it amazes me that women and men are still shamed for being sexual beings. Excuse me, hello?! We’re human!

In our society, they sent out mixed messages such as using sex to sell a product or business is acceptable, but a female who openly enjoys sex, now that’s just sinful!. And running this blog I had been called as a SLUT who want the attention from the world. We live in a highly sexualized society and yet, as women, we are told that it’s wrong to be sexual beings; we’re told we shouldn’t think about - let alone talk about - sex.

Shut the Fuck up and Listen up, Father Mother and Everyone, especially women. Sex isn’t a nasty thing. If you enjoy sex, sex toys, sexy lingerie, porn, swinging, stripping, or any other sexual act then have at it! You shouldn’t feel like enjoying sex has to be your dirty little secret. Openly embrace your sexuality as a woman and as a human being. It’s not wrong, it’s not sinful, it’s not dirty…it’s natural!

I am constantly writing about and talking about my sexual exploits, and if someone doesn’t like it they can go to hell! You should do the same to anyone who judges you for getting your freak on and loving every second of it.

Who are they to judge, anyway? In my experience, when people get their undies in a bunch over my sexual satisfaction, it’s usually because their own sex life sucks. 

Rather than shame each other for openly enjoying something we all know is a natural human act, we should be encouraging each other to practice SAFE SEX.

2 comments:

  1. Yes, sex supposed to be fun. Nowadays, the society made it complicated. Made love is not sex. Have sex is not love. Some count the number of times one had sex... such making it quota is a must. I just don't see the reason it is. Perhaps women see it as a control.

    Couples who are in deep serious relationship shouldn't treat sex as something "i'm doing it because I love him or her". They should treat it because they love doing it with each other. That's how I view it when it comes sex. :D

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    1. Just to add to the second paragraph, sex should between the couple. Both should enjoy; if it is doing it because of her/him, that's really minus out the excitement.

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