Why you are Getting No Sexts

Let’s get one thing straight…Girls are sexual creatures. Girls are dirty. Girls love sex. Girls think about sex, probably more than you do. Girls, women, whatever you want to refer to the fairer sex as they are not these pure, chastised creatures many in the media make them out to be. 

Now, not every girl is a sexting devil who talks dirty each and every day with a number of guys before sending them naked photos. 

Problem 1: Attraction Type
You may not be creating enough attraction. Not the “oh he’s cute and maybe I’ll let him take me on a few dates” type of attraction, I’m talking the “ohhhh shit! Why am I following this stranger into a bathroom after he fingered me while making out on the dance floor” type of attraction.

If she’s not sexually into you, you probably won’t be getting any sexts, naked pictures or dirty talking from her. You have to arouse her in order to get dirty texts and photos from a girl. You can’t just attract her. She has to actively think about your cock deep inside her before she’ll actively engage you in sexting. And clearly this is easier after you’ve slept with a girl…Get it?

Problem 2: No Sex For You
You may not be getting laid enough. It’s always easier to get naked pictures and dirty texts from girls you’ve slept with before. You’ll always be playing an uphill battle if you’re trying to get things heated up before sleeping with her. It’s possible, but a bit more difficult.

Problem 3: Tactless Hungry Dudes
You don’t know how to properly talk dirty with her. You go from “0 to 100” way too quickly. Instead of pre-heating the engine, you’re way too hungry. You have no patience or tact.
Now, women love men of action. They love men who go after what they want, but only if done in the proper manner. You shouldn’t ever come off as a brazen or rude social retard with no filter.

Human Papillomavirus

Let’s talk about HPV. Of course you will be thinking what the fuck is HPV? The Human Papillomavirus (HPV) is a common virus that can affect both women and men. It can cause cervical, vulvar and vaginal cancer in women. HPV can also cause anal and throat cancer, as well as genital warts in both women and men. Ouch!

Dear Girlfriends,

Based on the Malaysia National Cancer Registry Report 2007, cervical cancer is the 3rd most common cancer among Malaysian women and 5th most common cancer in the entire Malaysia general population. Additionally, the 2012 report from WHO Globocan indicates cervical cancer is now the 2nd most common cancer among Malaysian women. 

Approximately 2,145 families watch helplessly as the women they love fight through cervical cancer every year. Even after treatment, 25% of genital warts cases return within 3 months. About 2 out of 3 people will get genital warts after having any kind of genital contact with someone who is infected. Persistent infection by certain types of HPV can lead to disease development.

How is HPV spread?

You can get HPV by having vaginal, anal, or oral sex with someone who has the virus. It is most commonly spread during vaginal or anal sex. HPV can be passed even when an infected person has no signs or symptoms.

Anyone who is sexually active can get HPV, even if you have had sex with only one person. You also can develop symptoms years after you have sex with someone who is infected making it hard to know when you first became infected.

How can you avoid HPV and the health problems it can cause?

You can do several things to lower your chances of getting HPV. Get vaccinated. HPV vaccines are safe and effective. They can protect males and females against diseases (including cancers) caused by HPV when given in the recommended age groups.

Get screened for cervical cancer. Routine screening for women aged 21 to 65 years old can prevent cervical cancer.

If you are sexually active, use condoms the right way every time you have sex. This can lower your chances of getting HPV. But HPV can infect areas that are not covered by a condom ,so condoms may not give full protection against getting HPV.

Be in a mutually monogamous relationship or have sex only with someone who only has sex with you.

To prevent health problems related to HPV, be sure to get regular check ups, screenings and pap smears.If you want to know more about the vaccination, contact your health care providers.

For more information do visit : http://www.livemysunshinehpv.com

Vanilla Sex, Please!

Vanilla sex refers to sex that does not involve those elements of play that are thought of as "kinky." The problem is that what's considered vanilla depends on who you ask.

Only If You Wear It Right - A Condom' Tale

Everyone knows that wearing a condom is one of the most effective ways to prevent unwanted pregnancies and sexually transmitted infections. However, it's what you don't know about putting on a condom that can change your life.

Fetishes You Didn't Know You Had

In our country, it’s probably…no Sex Talk! We are so ashamed of this topic. Therefore, if we choose to talk about them in public or not, we all have sexual preferences, do you agree with me?

You Cum...too early!

Premature ejaculation is where a man ejaculates (comes) too quickly during sexual intercourse. It is a common ejaculation problem nowadays…. Simply because….oh well.

Boobs Grabbing Me

Breasts are girl’s asset and they are precious. You know he loves them…You know they will surely bring you pleasure too right? We all talked about Boobiiesss all the time, but not forget they are also a sexual organ…let’s try out some sexy touch for everyone.

Sex Positions for Beginners

Starting to have sex is an exciting and thrilling time in a person's life. Knowing the right sex positions to start with can get your sex life off to a good start. Getting comfortable doing it when you’re new at all of that sexual stuff takes some time! That’s why it’d be smart to start off nice and easy! Going slow is the way to go, and if you’re just a beginner

These are mostly what are considered to be ‘standard’ and ‘regular’ positions. So they are definitely the ones to start off with if you’re just beginning to explore your…uh…options! They aren’t too hard on your muscles and won’t cause discomfort or strain for either of you, so, you’ll be able to work up some experience before you go on to some more challenging ones!

The Missionary Position. Considered to be the tamest of them all! Everybody knows how this one goes with the girl is on her back and the guy in on top.

IT’S MY FAVOURITE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!There are variations as for what you can do with the legs: wrap them around him, spread them wide, pull them closer to you, put them on his shoulders , blab la blab . But for starters, stick to what comes easy, as all variations make a difference in the angle and depth of penetration. Since the guy is on top, he’s pretty much in control of the speed and force of thrusting so make sure you tell him to slow down it starts feeling like too much ,which can happen in the beginning.

Ride on him is something that saves his energy, if you want him to last longer and harder. It’s pretty self-explanatory, this one… You’re the one on top AND the one in charge. Even though it’s most common for girls to lose their virginity in the missionary position, it’s not a bad idea to try and do it this way instead – simply because with this one you can be in control and decide how hard and fast you want to go. If you’re reluctant to get on top cause you feel like you won’t know what to do or how to move, don’t worry! It’s not expected of you to be an expert if you’re just beginning, and there’s no one right way to do it. Just do what feels right, and try and see what movements give you and him the most pleasure. This position is considered to be the one that can get most girls to orgasm, because this is where they can take care of their big O themselves!

Doggy Me This Way……This is my favourite and also for most guys and many girls too. When you are on your hands and knees it enables him to have access to everything and get a deeper angle of penetration. Because of this, ask him to go slow at first until you make sure it’s not causing you any pain and you’re ready to get a little raunchy!

Choosing the right sex position for you can also help you achieve a mind-blowing orgasm.

Losing Your Virginity Just As You Imagined It To Be?

There are few unbelievable things that young woman’s life been through. Before our first period, it is tough on how it feel having sanitary pad on your undies for days. Before our first kiss, we hardly can imagine how close we can feel a person right in front of us or someone else pressing our face or even moving tongue in our mouth. Losing virginity isn’t the weird part.

It doesn’t matter what is your background, age or experience. Having sex for the first time is a big deal for some people. You can prepare as much as possible but you still can’t exactly feel what it like until the deed is done.

Not all of us lose our virginities at age 18. If you’re still a virgin later in life, it can feel like you’re the last person on earth who hasn’t had sex, but you aren’t alone. Whether you’re waiting for your wedding or just haven’t found the right person, here’s what you should know about losing your virginity as an adult.

First things first: what does virginity mean to you? Most people think that Dick in Pussy intercourse is what defines losing one’s virginity, but that really shouldn’t be the default. Intercourse might not be a part of your desired repertoire, or there may be other acts that have more meaning to you. It’s really up to each of us to decide what act constitutes losing our virginity. Aside from the logistics, there’s also the emotional weight that you assign to your virginity. Would you like to lose your virginity with someone you care about? Are you saving it for marriage?

One of the biggest questions that come up for later-in-life virgins is whether or not to tell a potential first partner about your virginity status. My advice tends to be yes: your virginity isn’t anything to be ashamed of, so you don’t need to hide it. Virginity means different things to different people, so you should allow your partner to decide whether or not they feel comfortable being the one to take yours.

You’ll also need to figure out how you’re going to protect yourself from sexually transmitted infections and pregnancy. Do this before you are naked and horny.

You’re probably going to be a big bundle of nerves before losing your virginity. That’s okay! No need to force yourself to act calm if it feels like there’s a colony of butterflies setting up shop in your stomach. Let yourself feel whatever you need to feel before, during, and afterwards.

Let me be real with you: your first time is probably going to be short ,a little awkward, and not particularly fantastic. It will feel like there are an awful lot of limbs involved and no good place to put any of them. It takes time and practice to learn how to have great sex. You’ll get there eventually, but not your first time and that’s okay! Try focusing on the acts you’ve already done and feel comfortable with to bolster your confidence.

Your first time may also be somewhat painful and bloody. Most people think that the hymen is responsible for these unfortunate side effects, but that’s not necessarily the case. The oft-misunderstood hymen doesn’t block off her vaginal canal, and doesn’t “pop” during sex. It’s a permeable membrane that likely already has a number of perforations in it. If one does experience pain, it’s probably because the sensitive tissues of her vaginal canal aren’t used to being penetrated in this way. Bleeding can come from the hymen, but it’s just as likely to originate from the tissues of her vagina, which again, aren’t used to this kind of intrusion.

Be prepared for clean-up. As mentioned above, there may be some blood involved. There may also be lots of bodily fluids that are rapidly sliding their way out of your orifices. Have a box of wet tissue near you.

Have fun, and welcome to the wonderful world of being a sexually active adult!

The Unicorn Dick

I had adventures with both. WHY? Large dick isn’t always good for blow job. But some guys are really good in using their small dick in various positions to make you moan for more. However, Asian takes it as shameful stories to share on their tiny dick. 


At far as large dicks go, there are two kinds. The large ugly awkward penises that look unappealing from every angle. It almost feels worse because it’s so ugly. The second option is like the unicorn of dicks. It’s beautiful and not all mangled looking and the owner understands its size and worth and uses it appropriately. They’re not trying to jam it in your butt or force it down your throat. Unicorn-dicks is gentle and accommodating

Sex Is Not Painful

Sex is supposed to feel good like dam good. But, there are some women who thinks that having sex is a painful thing. Though the hurt could be a symptom of a serious issue such as endometriosis ( no idea how to spell it ), more often the cause is less grave.

No guys dick will feel like a sand paper. They don’t hurt you. Vaginal dryness..A lack of lubrication is hands down the most common cause of painful sex….That is why lubricant companies earn million of dollars a year. You may try to apply some lubricants on your part during foreplay so that you will not feel painful during intercourse.

When it seems as if he is going to burst through your cervix.No, he's not too big for you (most tab A's can fit into slot B's). You're probably just rushing things. Many women think that if they feel excited, then they're ready for sex.But your body needs time to lift the uterus and make room for the vagina to expand. The latter can stretch from four inches long to a fully aroused seven inches."

How to deal with it? Don't skimp on the pregame warm-up. Most women need a good 20 minutes of foreplay to make sure their parts are ready for action. Listen up, fast trackers.Simply adding lube isn't a good shortcut. It might make entry easier, but it won't change the length or shape of your vagina.

It feels as if shards of glass are cutting up the outer area of your vagina? Women!!!!!Possible nervous-system disorder. It affects some of women and is notoriously difficult to identify. Doctors often misdiagnose it as a yeast infection. You may also get some DIY relief from a vibrator.

If you're in a committed relationship, good news: The cure is more sex, not less sex.

Fun AND Active Sex Is All You Need

As we age, sex may not happen as often and it may take a little longer. But taking longer doesn’t make it any less fun; in fact, it can make it even more fun. While your sex drives may decrease with age,they should not decrease substantially.

Most people will probably experience a number of changes in physical and emotional that have an impact on our level of imtimacy, sexual activity and pleasure. Just because things changes doesn’t mea I have to forget about what has been a source of pleasure to me and an important part of my life and relationship. Be creative and try new things.

Communication bring us closer by talking and touching..Opening lines normally for me would be..Can we have sex? He would normally replied ..NO. But, he normally bang me 4 times a week if he’s totally free and off from basketball activities. Try it and see what happens, discuss the changes you are going through and how can you accommodate each other.

Weirdly, we do not communicate on trying out on new positions, he just did it. So its like SURPRISES on every sex sessions. Think differently about sex. Kinky ya!

Sex is more than just penetration. All kinds of touch are stimulating and pleasurable. Take the time to explore each other’s bodies and find out what turns you on. Touch is a great alternative or addition to intercourse. It can simply mean holding each other. It can also mean sensual massage, masturbation or oral sex.

And there is nothing wrong with sex for sex’s sake. If you are in a long-term or monogamous relationship, keeping sexually active doesn’t always have to mean that you are both in the mood. Sometimes it can just mean taking a bit of time to give your partner pleasure because that is what you want to do for them. Masturbation is also a way to keep sexually active. That is why he is totally fine with me having my fun toys.

Sometimes it’s just a matter of making a few small changes in your routine. Change the time of day when you have sex to the time when you have the most energy.Try the morning instead of at the end of a long day.Try a new position. Even changing your usual side of the bed adds a bit of variety.

If you always do it in the bedroom, try another room in the house if your family situation allows you a bit more privacy at certain times. Having sex in other places give you another heart pounding session.If you always do it on the weekends, try a few mid-week breaks. Give yourself the time you need to get aroused and enjoy the journey. Hell Yeah…Bang me harder!

If you didn’t have lots of sex early in your relationship or through your middle years of relationship, it is likely that you are not going to start to have lots of sex as an older adult or couple. Partners who enjoyed frequent sex when they were younger are more likely to continue that pattern as they age. Something to think about as you enter middle age!

Regular exercise can increase sexual frequency and improve performance. Taking care of your body and your mind will help keep you primed for sex, at any age!

Cleanliness Before Sex Activities

Cleanliness is a thing that we were taught since young. But did your mom ever tell you about sex hygiene? I grow up having my mom who she is 50% open about sex topic. She often told me about sex hygiene. How bout you? There are few rules you need to abide by prevent any infection or embarrassments when you about to have sex.

The vagina is actually a self-cleansing organ, and gynecologists warn against using feminine hygiene products designed to “freshen” you down there before sex. Wipes are bad for you because they can mess with your body’s natural pH and actually lead to infections–which will make you have a legit problem down there that you didn’t before.

It’s totally normal to want to freshen up before sex, but you shouldn’t feel pressured into it by anything or anyone, especially not by strangers trying to sell you something. The best way to make sure you’re in tip-top shape before sex is just to shower with regular old soap and water. If you don’t have wipes or perfumes or weird chemicals to clean up down there, it doesn’t mean you’re not sexy or that you’re not prepared–it means that you’re actually pretty smart and safe

We have enough sexual shame in our culture to last for generations, and if you induce more your partner will be less likely to feel sexy. And feeling sexy is important to our desire to have sex. So broach the subject gently. You might want to start non-verbally by bathing him or her. Just hop in the shower before making love, get some vibrating sponges or water proof toys and have fun in the suds. Just make sure not to get any soap inside the vagina or inside either of your anuses.

 For the issue of taste or smell it is important to note that if you aren’t comfortable with your partner’ flavor or scent, that you might want to try giving it a little time before turning away. The taste of the genitals may be strong at first, but as you continue you will often find that it diminishes as things heat up and get going. If it doesnt then you may want to try some dietary changes. Another reason for a bad taste or smell may be a bacterial infection, so if things persist you may want to visit your doctor to see if there is something else going on.

I love kissing but bad Breath? Kissing for most women is the deciding factor when it comes to whether or not they are going to sleep with you. If your breath is bad you may not get very far. Try brushing your teeth or chewing on gum when it comes to putting your mouth on your partner.

Please wash your hands before touching your partner‚or other regions, this can stop germs and infection. Also, check your hands for rough calluses or jagged nails and file or trim them. If you are attached to the length of your finger nails you may want to use toys for anal or vaginal penetration, but really, isnt the pleasure worth cutting your nails short?

 A quick wash to the genital area can do wonders. Just using water is fine. And while you are splashing it on check to be sure that there arent any wads of toilet paper or other pleasantries lingering about. You can use soap, just dont get any inside of you as if may affect your natural PH.

Honestly, I am still a virgin when it comes to Anal Area.Okay, this is a big one, please, please, please clean this area if you are expecting to receive any anal play. First of all, note if you have hair back there. Hair collects stuff, toilet paper and other stuff that might not be so pleasant for your partner, so make sure to check your hair and even trim it if necessary. Wash the external area with soap and water. If you want penetration you may want to do a quick enema. You can check with your own finger to be sure that you are clean.

Once you have done your grooming, you may want to take time to deliciously groom your partner. And if they don’t go for it, you may want to have a talk with them about how sexy they are and how much you enjoy bathing them. Be positive and entice your partner with creative words. If all else fails, try some flavoured lubes or condoms.